Great kid


When I was at the park the other day, Luke and I were enjoying the crisp cool air as were many others.  We'd made our way around the park once and were just about to cut across the field when I saw and heard a little girl on a bike yelling at me.  As we got closer she shouted out "I think that's a poodle, is that a poodle?"  First off let me say how shocked I was that she knew that Luke is a poodle; I've had other poodle owners ask me what he is.  "Is that a doodle?"  NO for the millionth time.  This little girl who had to be no more than 3 or 4 knew.

She stopped her bike; then said "he looks different, he's missing, missing his poofs."  "Yep I cut them off," I told her.  "Oh, you cut them off," she said nodding as though this made clear sense now.  How cute is this little girl?  Then she says; as we are about 10 feet away at this point "can I pet your dog?"  What?  Did she really ask me that?  Someone has taught this girl well.  I couldn't help but smile, this little girl doing it the right way.  She never approached us until I told her that she could indeed pet the dog.  But of course I didn't tell her this until I yelled to what looked like her Grandma.  She nodded so I told her she could pet him.

She comes over quietly and calmly pets Luke's back.  Her little brother was on a scooter and he dropped it and ran when he saw his sister petting a dog. He had to be around two and said to me "is that a doodle?"  I laughed because I'm pretty sure he meant to say poodle.  He too pet Luke calmly on the back as I monitored the situation.  Luke was calm and being a good boy.  The two children were done in a split second and ran back to their bikes.  I smiled at their Grandma and said "great kids."  She was beaming of course; as any good Grandmother should be.

This was a great interaction with little kids and a strange dog.  Not all are like this and it is completely the fault of the parents.  More than once I've had to hold my hand out keeping a child at bay as they swing their arms around attempting to throw them around my dog's neck.  Not all dogs are okay with kids; this is a fact.  And if you do not teach your children to respect dogs, then they could be the victim of a dog bite which could have been avoided.  Some dogs are down right freaked by children; perhaps never having been accustom to them being around.  Children are very different than adults; they move differently, faster and haphazardly.

Child/dog interactions also need a huge amount of supervision, adult supervision.  Dogs are very clear in their communications but children will not notice; that's your job.  It is our job to protect our children and to protect our dogs.

3 comments:

  1. those were amazing kids! not the usual kids that we often run into. we get the doodle stuff too and it really irritates me. THEY ARE POODLES!

    we ran into a family a couple of times and one of the little boys was pulling on Baxter's ears. i politely asked him to stop while his parents ignored the bad behavior. the kids were being so obnoxious that i finally stopped being polite and just told them to leave my dogs alone.

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  2. I got the satisfaction I needed the other day. I have a 4 yr old daughter that has been raised around dogs, and have always tried to teach her right. To always ask before touching or going up to a dog, and then how to pet it if the owners say it's okay. I've explained before that not all dogs are like ours-nice. We were on vacation and in a busy outdoor mall. She spotted a guy with a JRT, course she wanted nothing more than to pet the dog and go say hi, and without me saying a word she looked at the man and said, "Is it okay if I pet your dog?" While she was standing about 6 feet from the dog. I was so proud!

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  3. How wonderful; you should be proud. Great job and great kid :)

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